When he first heard this quote from the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. — “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter” — Yanfer Martinez, a senior at New Canaan High School and ABC scholar, thought only of historically significant moments of great injustice. Yet Martinez soon realized that “it was also about the small moments, the quiet ones, the moments where speaking feels uncomfortable,” he recalled Monday morning from the podium at United Methodist Church of New Canaan, addressing more than 150 people gathered for an annual service honoring King’s life and legacy. “I grew up in a Dominican household in Bridgeport where racism was not an abstract idea—it was something you learned early, sometimes before you had the words to explain it,” he continued. “I saw that prejudice reaches children first, how it shapes the way they see themselves long before they understand why they’re being seen differently.”
When he came to New Canaan, Martinez said, he “arrived with hope.”
“I told myself that a new place might mean a new beginning, that maybe here I could finally breathe without being watched,” he said. Yet he soon learned that the weight he had felt before “was still there.”
“It just rested on my shoulders more gently,” Martinez said.