It is with broken hearts that we share with you that Tom passed away on Wednesday, September 24, 2025, at the age of 75 yrs old.
Tom graduated from NCHS in a work study program. His trade of study was done at Village Body Shop in New Canaan. He continued working there for 30 years.
After retirement he began his work at New Canaan Public School transportation department. He made many connections with children and colleagues over the 21 years. He left behind his smile and kindness to everyone he met.
Tom is survived by his wife of 45 years Judy. He is survived by his nephews, Jimi and Matt Gilroy and 3 nieces and two granddaughters, Celeste and Stephanie, and 4 great grandchildren, Sissy, Cooper, Joshua and Tierney. He was predeceased by his parents and his four brothers, Bob, Mike, Billy and Richard.
A celebration of life will take place on October 4, 2025, at The New Canaan Nature Center, 144 Oenoke Ridge, New Canaan, from 11 am to 2 pm. Please wear bright colors, this is a celebration of an exceptional man.
Special thank you to everyone who prayed for the family, sent beautiful cards and caring messages, and special friends who stopped by, the family so grateful for your support. A grateful thanks to Visiting Nurse and Hospice for the care given to the family.
Please no flowers. Donations may be made to Gilroy/Weeks Scholarship Fund, New Canaan High School, 11 Farm Road, New Canaan, Ct 06840
Sending my heartfelt condolences to Judy on the loss of your cherished husband who will be greatly missed by so many. RIP Tom.
Great man ..As a kid we would visit him and Tommy Howel at the body shop Later in life coffee @ my store RIP Prayers to Judy and family .
Tom and Judy brightened every room they entered. They were a regular at the Steve Benko Pool, and i always took pleasure in their greeting. I look forward to seeing Judy continue the greetings and smiles for years to come
Forever in my heart. Gilroy family has always been special to me. Fond memories keep them alive.
Sweet man with a very big heart
Tom and Judy helped our family during a sad time in our lives. They both stepped up big time and proved that’s what friends are for
I will forever cherish you!
Judy, I’m so sorry for your loss. Seeing you two walking in town together was always fun. You brought so much joy to each other and the people around you. Sending hugs to you and your family.
One of the nicest, kindest, greatest, person to grace this town (the world) with his presence.
Rest peacefully Tommy.
My deepest condolences to all of Tom’s family. Tom and I were classmates, class of 1969. A terrific guy, he’ll be greatly missed. 🙏 Sincerely, Ben Harvey
Tommy was my favorite brother-in-law. His kind heart, his loving spirit and his laugh will be greatly missed. Judy you and Tommy had a very special bond. Cherish your memories. From the other Gilroy Family 💕