PHOTOS: 2023 Memorial Day Parade and Ceremony

Prior to Memorial Day this year, it had been 10 years since New Canaan’s John McLane addressed a crowd that gathered to remember and honor our nation’s war dead. 

A U.S. Army captain in Vietnam, McLane observed in a keynote address during VFW Post 653’s annual Memorial Day ceremony held Monday in Lakeview Cemetery that “much has changed, not all for the better.”

“Today, divisions are growing,” McLane told more than 350 residents gathered at the cemetery on a sunny, breezy morning following the Memorial Day Parade. 

“Traditions and values are being called into question,” he continued. “Yet I would respectfully suggest that in the quiet, serene settings like this one all across America, citizens can still come together and feel a renewed sense of unity and purpose, harmony and hope. This is what makes today, Memorial Day, so special. We honor the people in New Canaan cemeteries, not for their fame and fortune, not for their achievements, but what they so generously gave: Their faithful service in, for some, their highest and last full measure of devotion.”

McLane called Memorial Day “the most expensive day on the calendar.”

“Throughout history, those who go into harm’s way have asked two questions,” he said. “First, will I die today?

New Canaan Marks Veterans Day with VFW-Led Ceremony at Town Hall

When he was a young man growing up in Seattle and thinking about joining the military, U.S. Army Col. Jeffrey Erickson’s father mentioned that his own uncle—Walter “Bud” Anderson—had been in the Navy during World War II. Erickson, now director of the Army Cyber Institute at the United States Military Academy in West Point, N.Y, decided to delve into the family history. 

He discovered that his great-uncle Bud had been aboard the USS Nevada in Pearl Harbor on Dec. 7, 1941—the day the Japanese attacked the United States, drawing the nation into the war. 

Reciting his great-uncle’s experience that day in Bud’s own words, Erickson told more than 100 people gathered at Town Hall for New Canaan’s annual Veterans Day ceremony about the moment a soldier came on deck with distressing news. “He was all shook up and said the Japanese planes were bombing the ships,” Erickson said, relaying his great-uncle Bud’s own words before the rapt attendees, which included local veterans, members of VFW Post 653, New Canaan Police, Fire and Emergency Medical Services personnel, municipal workers, representatives from the Hannah Benedict Carter Chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution and others.

PHOTOS: New Canaan Marks Memorial Day with Parade, Ceremony

The Rev. Dr. R. Scott Herr of First Presbyterian Church of New Canaan addressed more than 300 residents gathered at Lakeview Ceremony following Monday morning’s Memorial Day parade to “remember and give thanks for the patriots who have given their lives in service to our great nation and the service of peoples around the world who desire justice, freedom and peace.”

“Today we honor those men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice to defend our Constitution and our democracy,” Herr continued during an opening prayer to the ceremony organized each year by the Howard M. Bossa and Peter C. Langenus Post 653 of the Veterans of Foreign Wars of the United States. “We are free to worship here today because they were brave, and we live by the light of the flame of liberty they kept burning. As we remember those who gave their lives to defend our freedoms, we also pray for other peoples in the world who seek democracy—especially the people of Ukraine and Russia, and pray for a just and lasting peace between those people. We also remember those innocent victims in places like Buffalo and Uvalde, and how truly fragile a free a peaceful society is. As we honor those from all races and religions who served in the Armed Forces, we pray for courage and wisdom to be a people who heal our divisions, right our wrongs and bring unity here at home.

New Canaan’s Memorial Day Parade and Ceremony Return [PHOTOS]

Brian Platz’s grandfather was in his mid-20s, with three children, when he was drafted into the U.S. Marines toward the end of World War II. 

Platz on Monday morning recalled that his grandfather “would tell us that we were actually running out of men.”

“The draft began, if I remember him correctly, with single men aged 18 to 26,” Platz—himself a U.S. Marines veteran, known to many New Canaanites as the town’s chief building official—told about 300 people gathered at Lakeview Cemetery for a Memorial Day ceremony. “Then went to married men 18 to 26. Married with one child. Married with two. Married with three.