Frank Hermes, 82

Frank Hermes passed away at the age of 82 on January 21 with Cindie, his beloved wife of 57 years, by his side. He is also survived by his son and daughter-in law, Jim and Lisa Hermes; and daughter and son-in law, Liz and Kier Riemersma; as well as his grandsons, Taylor and Jack Hermes and Rocky Riemersma. Frank (or Sandy or Max, depending on who you ask) was born in New Rochelle, NY and went on to grow up in New Canaan, CT with his father Frank, mother Jerry, and sisters Pat and June. He graduated from Dartmouth College in 1965 and stayed close to his alma mater all his life. After graduating from college, Frank served in the U.S. Army, stationed at Fort Eustis in Newport News, VA.

Martha (Marti) Hosler Durey, 1940-2025

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Martha (Marti) Hosler Durey, who left this world peacefully on February 1, 2025, at Norwalk Hospital. She was predeceased by her beloved husband, John C. Durey, Jr.; her dear brother, Robert M. Hosler, Jr.; and her loving parents, Robert M. Hosler, Sr., MD and Eleanor (McCurdy) Hosler. Though she has departed, her memory will forever live on in the hearts of her many nieces and nephews, cherished friends, and her faithful furry companions, Coco and Chacha. Born in Cleveland, Ohio in 1940, Marti graduated from high school in 1958 before attending Mount Union College. There, she was a proud member of the Tri Delta sorority and earned her degree in sociology in 1962.

Sydney Fulford, 94

Sydney “Nana” Snell Fulford passed away peacefully and with grace, surrounded by loving family, on January 17, 2025. Born in Brooklyn Heights on January 27, 1930, she was days away from her 95th birthday. Sydney was ready to depart, though torn between leaving her beloved family and joining the love of her life, Bill Fulford, who she met in Grosse Pointe, Michigan. After flipping a sailboat together on Lake Saint Clair, they soon married and started a family. Sydney grew up in Great Neck, NY, and was a graduate of Wheelock College.

Yolanda Kraemer, 77

July 7, 1947 – January 24, 2025

With deep sorrow, we announce the passing of Yolanda Bensey Kraemer on Friday, January 24, 2025. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, Yolanda lived a life filled with love, warmth, and unwavering dedication to those she held dear. Born in New York City on July 7, 1947, Yolanda grew up on the Upper East Side and in the Bronx. She was the beloved daughter of Julia Bensey and a cherished sister to Barbara Maietta. Family was always at the heart of Yolanda’s life, and in 1973, she married Arthur Kraemer, the love of her life and her best friend.

Patricia Marie Hussey-White, 63

Patricia Marie Hussey-White, 63, of New Canaan, passed away peacefully on January 26, 2024 at Mt. Sinai Hospital after battling a long illness surrounded by family. 

Patricia is survived by husband David White, daughter Katherine White; sister Laurie (John) Novak; aunts Janet DaSilva, Christine Hussey, Julie Hussey, Vera Oliver as well as a large extended family.  She was preceded in death by her parents Martin and Winifred (Cromwell) Hussey. 

Patricia (Patti) was born in Norwalk and had a deep affection for her hometown, as a native New Canaanite.  Above all, spending time with family and friends was most important to Patti.  Her love of gardening, cooking, crafting and decorating were just a few of her passions and she generously shared the results of her talents with many.  Patti retired after many years of service as a Case Manager for the State of CT’s Department of Developmental Services.  While many of Patti’s interests kept her close to home, she was also an avid fan of Bruce Springsteen, reminiscing with her lifelong friends, vacations to Chatham, MA, antiquing trips to Stormville, NY and enjoying the sunshine by the pool. 

Patti received much love, strength and support from her two closest friends Karin Bochicchio and Amy Reilly as well as from all her cousins, nieces and nephew. Patti cherished her daughter Katie, and in her final thoughts, she shared her pride in her daughter and sincere gratitude, love and thanks to family and friends.  While we mourn her loss, we take comfort in knowing she is at peace.   

Calling hours are being held on January 30, 2025, from 4-7 pm at Hoyt’s Funeral Home 199 Main St, New Canaan, CT 06840.   A mass will be celebrated at St. Aloysius on January 31, 2025, at 12:30. 

[This obituary appeared on the Hoyt Funeral Home website.]